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Should a relationship precede over friendship? Will a person ever know he/she is priortising his/her relationship over his/her friends?
I am very disappointed with my close friend shirley. Over the months she has been with her new beau, she has became someone else.
She says she is stunned by her friend who can leave everything here and go to Japan with her bf. Today, she is not surprised by her own actions as she is leaving for shanghai for 2yrs with Chee An. I had to hear it from another close friend. I will be waiting to hear this in person, hopefully.
Her life revolves around her new guy. She claims she spends most of her time at her work. And the rest is presumably for him. The 4 of us are not really a part of it. When i sms her, she takes days to reply. The most efficient method of communicating with her is thru her office email, if she is at work of cos. But soon there wont be such a means anymore because she is resigning.
I thot we always had this unspoken chemistry and telepathy about how things are like and to be done. When we went clubbing, all of us knew immediately it was an all girls thing. But she didnt. The dinner tonight was pretty unhappy. We all didnt really have any appetite. Too much changes has been made to jus a simple birthday dinner for fang and it made everyone changed their plans as well. Everyone was very disappointed.
It all started with a 6th monthlyversary, which shouldnt even seem important because she would have 2 whole years with him ALONE. Jy's bf changed his shift to thurs so that we all can spend wed tog, in the end shirley says that she had to celebrate her 6th month with CA. In the end, 6 months was more impt than 6yrs of tears, joy and friendship. She was pretty inadamant abt leaving wed for herself and her beau, until she sensed that i was nudging to change her date.
We all have our own commitments, it is our individual bdays that we all have a chance to finally meet up. And this happens. How many times do we celebrate each other's bday together. 5 times a year and thats it. Another 2 times is CNY and Xmas and thats it. 7 times of confirmed meeting in a year only. That is an avg of meeting once fort-monthly.
Though eventually, she managed to change her celebration to Thurs. The dinner for the 5 of us dint happen because she fell ill. I was jus disappointed. I was also ill and my nose was dripping and bleeding and my eye was infected. But regardless I made the effort to went clubbing to meet my dear friends. And this was jus a simple dinner, location was even changed such that she din have to travel far. But it nvr happened.
Deep in my heart, honestly, I cannot bring myself to believe that she is totally ill and that she wouldnt be meeting CA. Its very difficult. Its a very saddening thing that I couldnt even sincerely believe one of my dearest and most important friend. What's surprising is all my frens were shocked that she is leaving with him. But I was totally not, I was prepared. I already knew in my heart that she will leave when she first told me at her bday that she might be going. I already knew in my heart that CA has already taken her soul, when others say he doesnt have the charms or isnt good enough for her.
shirley is presumably leaving before the yr ends to shanghai, that means she doesnt really have many months left with us and probably not even spend ning and my birthday together. How many more chances do we have to spend together talking and chatting and hanging out. unfortunately, its jus a mere 2-4months. And it seems to all of the girls that she doesnt even treasure the time left.
Shirley, if you ever happen to read this entry. I am sorry to say that I'm very disappointed with you and so are all the other girls......
p/s: girls, tell me when u have blogged.
p/s/s: fang says she is using the perfume from us nw to feel our love esp from shirley... gua gua gua... she made me type this....
Posted by Wednesday, August 20, 2008 10:33 PM with 0 notes | add more notes
Should a relationship precede over friendship? Will a person ever know he/she is priortising his/her relationship over his/her friends?
I am very disappointed with my close friend shirley. Over the months she has been with her new beau, she has became someone else.
She says she is stunned by her friend who can leave everything here and go to Japan with her bf. Today, she is not surprised by her own actions as she is leaving for shanghai for 2yrs with Chee An. I had to hear it from another close friend. I will be waiting to hear this in person, hopefully.
Her life revolves around her new guy. She claims she spends most of her time at her work. And the rest is presumably for him. The 4 of us are not really a part of it. When i sms her, she takes days to reply. The most efficient method of communicating with her is thru her office email, if she is at work of cos. But soon there wont be such a means anymore because she is resigning.
I thot we always had this unspoken chemistry and telepathy about how things are like and to be done. When we went clubbing, all of us knew immediately it was an all girls thing. But she didnt. The dinner tonight was pretty unhappy. We all didnt really have any appetite. Too much changes has been made to jus a simple birthday dinner for fang and it made everyone changed their plans as well. Everyone was very disappointed.
It all started with a 6th monthlyversary, which shouldnt even seem important because she would have 2 whole years with him ALONE. Jy's bf changed his shift to thurs so that we all can spend wed tog, in the end shirley says that she had to celebrate her 6th month with CA. In the end, 6 months was more impt than 6yrs of tears, joy and friendship. She was pretty inadamant abt leaving wed for herself and her beau, until she sensed that i was nudging to change her date.
We all have our own commitments, it is our individual bdays that we all have a chance to finally meet up. And this happens. How many times do we celebrate each other's bday together. 5 times a year and thats it. Another 2 times is CNY and Xmas and thats it. 7 times of confirmed meeting in a year only. That is an avg of meeting once fort-monthly.
Though eventually, she managed to change her celebration to Thurs. The dinner for the 5 of us dint happen because she fell ill. I was jus disappointed. I was also ill and my nose was dripping and bleeding and my eye was infected. But regardless I made the effort to went clubbing to meet my dear friends. And this was jus a simple dinner, location was even changed such that she din have to travel far. But it nvr happened.
Deep in my heart, honestly, I cannot bring myself to believe that she is totally ill and that she wouldnt be meeting CA. Its very difficult. Its a very saddening thing that I couldnt even sincerely believe one of my dearest and most important friend. What's surprising is all my frens were shocked that she is leaving with him. But I was totally not, I was prepared. I already knew in my heart that she will leave when she first told me at her bday that she might be going. I already knew in my heart that CA has already taken her soul, when others say he doesnt have the charms or isnt good enough for her.
shirley is presumably leaving before the yr ends to shanghai, that means she doesnt really have many months left with us and probably not even spend ning and my birthday together. How many more chances do we have to spend together talking and chatting and hanging out. unfortunately, its jus a mere 2-4months. And it seems to all of the girls that she doesnt even treasure the time left.
Shirley, if you ever happen to read this entry. I am sorry to say that I'm very disappointed with you and so are all the other girls......
p/s: girls, tell me when u have blogged.
p/s/s: fang says she is using the perfume from us nw to feel our love esp from shirley... gua gua gua... she made me type this....
Life Rules
1. Everything is going to be ok in the end, if it's not ok, it's not the end.
2. Love more, judge less.
3. Never regret your choices because at some point in time it was exactly what you wanted.
4. If it's not worth it, don't sweat it
5. Be respectful
Five Wish Lists
1. Open my own bakery cafe
2. Be a mummie before 30
3. Go to freaking LA!
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